Manhood is under attack

Note: The article was written in 2018, when the #MeToo movement was active; however, many of its statements remain viable. It was edited in 2025.

Manhood is under attack.

Do you realize that we live in a thin-skinned society where everyone is being offended easily? Day after day, there are more and more ridiculous cases of "sensitivity" to something that, years ago, no one would have even noticed.

We have started by dismantling the statues and continued by denying the playing of a particular Christmas song that may offend #MeToo followers.

Where is the end to it?

Where is our strong spirit and manliness? Where is our respect as a nation to our past (even if not everything was so great)? Is it being replaced by a new " manliness" that has nothing to do with manly qualities but rather womanliness?

There is a humorous poster of a man who woke up in the morning and asked, "What are we offended by today?"

That continued attitude to search for more cases of offense is diminishing our strength as a nation, creating multicultural tensions, and making us weaker, to the degree that our enemies can easily exploit our new weakness.

Russian propaganda is working toward diminishing the Western way of life. It is already a known fact that 30% of millennials prefer socialism. Brainwashing in liberal colleges, along with the media's targeted propaganda, does damage to our society and capitalism - the only system that has proven to deliver freedom and prosperity to its citizens.

What do they know about socialism? Close to nothing beyond the college books.

Let's take Russia, for instance, 100 years since the October Revolution, when the first idea of equality was implemented. Guess what? Total disaster! The small gangs of former thieves, bandits, and those who were close to the communist party and KGB rule the country and are getting fatter every day, while ordinary citizens (those who should have that infamous "equality") struggle to feed their families.

Read the story of an ordinary Russian.

Before understanding the currency mentioned below, it is essential to know that as of January 5, 2019, US$1 equals 67.59 rubles. It is $82.90 as of September 2025. As for the weight, 1 kilogram = 2.2 pounds.

Vladimir Pashin (retired):

“I feel sorry for retired people. However, I am even more sorry when a man who has worked his entire life in a factory or government organization receives a beggar’s salary.

I was born in the city of Vologda in Russia. I hold a Bachelor's Degree (with an emphasis). I have been working in the railroad industry for over 25 years. My compensation is approximately 25,000 rubles (this amount includes the additional night shifts – I consider myself lucky). My wife makes 12,00 rubles. Total: 37,000 (or $547.00 U.S. dollars).

We have two kids. Our son, who is attending college in Saint Petersburg, has received a scholarship of 3,000 rubles. Another son is in a technical school. Could you please calculate our expenses? Community fees: 7,000 rubles; college cost: 5,000 rubles; transportation cost: 1,000 rubles per person, plus sometimes you have to buy some clothing.

What is left for food? In the best-case scenario, 4,000 rubles. This is a source of a health problem: no healthy teeth are gone, and why do we need them after all, when there is almost nothing to eat?

I am trying to catch ANY part-time job to survive from month to month.

Our menu.

Breakfast: tea (if we are lucky and can buy it on sale for 69 rubles per 100 grams) with a small piece of bread (18 rubles per loaf – enough for 2-3 days)

Lunch:  soup, mostly with veggies but sometimes with chicken bones (the soup pack with bones for 60 rubles per kilogram) plus a piece of black bread.

Dinner: fried potatoes or pure with a pickle and veggie salad. Sometimes, macaroni, rice, or buckwheat is served with a sausage of questionable quality (90 rubles per pound). Much more seldom, chicken (200 rubles per one if on sale), pork (you have to find one on sale!) for 200 rubles per kilogram. I did not eat beef for at least 5 years.

Desert: tea with small dried bagels (25 rubles for 300 grams on sale).

I am not complaining – many people live much worse. We are trying to help each other if we can.

It is a pity that in so rich a country, there are so many beggars and so many billionaires.”

Here is what I have heard from the guy (I met him in the cigar club) who was in Kyiv (the capital of Ukraine - a part of the former USSR) just a month ago. I am sorry for such details. The reality of it is mind-blowing. When people use the bathroom, they flush the toilet just once a day because the cost of water service is enormous. They save money for food.

Guys, I did not even mention some bloodiest facts in the history of the USSR (or Russia today) like the biggest, artificially created hunger designed by the “the most progressive regime in the world” on the territory of Ukraine; the “3 spicas of grain” law when people were arrested and executed if the authorities found at least three spicas of grain in your hands; about the NKVD barricades that have blocked people from moving out of dying villages; and at the same time, the trains and trains of Ukrainian grain for export!

I am not even talking about the Red Terror, the labor camps for kids, and the repressions of 1937thRead more in my next post about the Soviet version of Auschwitz.

Honestly, I would encourage every youngster to read “The GULAG Archipelago” written by Solzhenitsyn, so that they may reconsider their love for socialism as a system.

I could continue with Cambodia, Cuba, and today’s Venezuela.

Do we need the men who dream about socialism?

I worry about the society our grandchildren will live in. In the one where everything (all aspects of life) is under government control, enforced by political correctness, with the redistribution of wealth, or in a free society that is still based on the Constitution created by our Founding Fathers?

What do you think about it?

Charged environment

Many men across the country adjust their behavior at work to protect themselves from what they consider unreasonable political correctness -- or to do the right thing.

ROME, ITALY - JANUARY 20: Women demonstrate against violence and in solidarity with American women, as part of the #MeToo movement, during the Women's March on January 20, 2018, in Rome, Italy. (Photo by Simona Granati - Corbis/Corbis via Getty Images)

Men are adopting controversial strategies for the #MeToo era and, in the process, making life even more challenging for women.

“Women are grasping for ideas on how to deal with it, too, because it is affecting our careers,” said Karen Elinski, president of the Financial Women’s Association and a senior vice president at Wells Fargo & Co. “It’s a real loss.”

However, there is another danger associated with political correctness. “If men avoid working or traveling with women alone, or stop mentoring women for fear of being accused of sexual harassment, those men are going to back out of a sexual harassment complaint and right into a sex discrimination complaint.”

There is a so-called "the Pence Effect", after U.S. Vice President Mike Pence, who has said he avoids dining alone with any woman other than his wife. In the future, the overarching impact can be, in essence, gender segregation.

Interviews with more than 30 senior executives suggest many are spooked by #MeToo and struggling to cope. “It’s creating a sense of walking on eggshells...”

For obvious reasons, few men will talk openly about the issue. Privately, as on this blog, many men acknowledged their unease about being alone with female colleagues, particularly those who are young or attractive, fearing potential liability.

In this charged environment, the question is how the response to #MeToo might actually end up hurting women’s progress. It may simply backfire.

One man offered a solution: “Just try not to be an asshole.”

Maybe he is right. Better be a man's man.

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